Here is what i think about this maneno of whining and complaining about relationships that are not working with men who cannot meet your expectations and yet you still sit there like you are laying eggs; putting up with the kutwangwa kila mara and want to call me at midnight to cry about it!!...Please kill these fucking relationships that don't work,that do not meet your expectations, that are not fulfilling....You will not die if you are single; its just a state of mind..nkt!!!.
Relationships should not be complicated and full of drama all the time. If its not working,why are you still there?...Does it take a professor with a phd in neuroscience or something worded fancily to know that if something is not working you move on. Is it that we are addicted to complaining about the same old shit. You meet your friends and all you talk about is yourself and your issues and your relationships.Needless to say these conversations are often migraine inducing....its like that bad song Manyake on repeat......
I usually drift away to some land in my mind..whistle about there and distance myself from the constant yapping. You ask for advice yet you don't take the advice,so why ask? Why waste my time asking for my advice yet you will never take it. So are we just pals for you to yap about your issue and that's it. Why not have constructive conversations for a change....business...a project...something forward looking. Something to build,develop...tuendelezane. Sio kila wakati its issues about sijui what your boyfriend did or did not do.To me its very simple and clear,if you are not getting what you need,please move on gal,wacha kutubore hapa na mashida zako haziishi......
Yes and when you meet this new fascinating person...of course the gals share in your happiness(some..lol). But let it not be the story of everyday. You bore your sisters to death with the same old maneno...because when shit hits the fan you will again torture us with the story over and over again.....
I always feel sorry for the woman who sits and waits for the simu to ring or a text from someone who has not bothered to contact you for weeks and then you want to cry and whine about it. You missed the signs..please move on. Embarassing yourself by endlessly texting the guy and calls like a maniac do not do any justice to your pride as a woman;please stop the melodrama!!
Things that are meant to work will work,forcing issues is a waste of time. Even if you get pregnant to trap the man like some women still do( a very stupid move if you ask me)....he will still not be what you want him to be. Manipulating a relationship to go your way...will never work. It blows up in your face eventually.
So please gals..wacheni hii upuzi ya stalking men who are clearly not into you,stop keeping relationships that are clearly damaging you more than they are edifying and embrace singlehood..buy a dildo and explore happiness in other ways...lol.....
Ndio nimesema.....
Relationships should not be complicated and full of drama all the time. If its not working,why are you still there?...Does it take a professor with a phd in neuroscience or something worded fancily to know that if something is not working you move on. Is it that we are addicted to complaining about the same old shit. You meet your friends and all you talk about is yourself and your issues and your relationships.Needless to say these conversations are often migraine inducing....its like that bad song Manyake on repeat......
I usually drift away to some land in my mind..whistle about there and distance myself from the constant yapping. You ask for advice yet you don't take the advice,so why ask? Why waste my time asking for my advice yet you will never take it. So are we just pals for you to yap about your issue and that's it. Why not have constructive conversations for a change....business...a project...something forward looking. Something to build,develop...tuendelezane. Sio kila wakati its issues about sijui what your boyfriend did or did not do.To me its very simple and clear,if you are not getting what you need,please move on gal,wacha kutubore hapa na mashida zako haziishi......
Yes and when you meet this new fascinating person...of course the gals share in your happiness(some..lol). But let it not be the story of everyday. You bore your sisters to death with the same old maneno...because when shit hits the fan you will again torture us with the story over and over again.....
I always feel sorry for the woman who sits and waits for the simu to ring or a text from someone who has not bothered to contact you for weeks and then you want to cry and whine about it. You missed the signs..please move on. Embarassing yourself by endlessly texting the guy and calls like a maniac do not do any justice to your pride as a woman;please stop the melodrama!!
Things that are meant to work will work,forcing issues is a waste of time. Even if you get pregnant to trap the man like some women still do( a very stupid move if you ask me)....he will still not be what you want him to be. Manipulating a relationship to go your way...will never work. It blows up in your face eventually.
So please gals..wacheni hii upuzi ya stalking men who are clearly not into you,stop keeping relationships that are clearly damaging you more than they are edifying and embrace singlehood..buy a dildo and explore happiness in other ways...lol.....
Ndio nimesema.....
